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Downtown Day Care

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By Downtown Dad

Summer is over, kids are back to school and looking for day care for our toddler in downtown Los Angeles has been quite an education for me and my wife. We’ve come to learn that high prices, long wait lists and seemingly low standards are apparently the norm.

Look, our son is only 2. We understand he won’t be learning physics — at least not until we find that dreamy boarding school in the English countryside, the one that’s perpetually damp and the kids joke around in Latin. But we did kind of hope for at least a story hour, especially for the going rate of $1,000 a month.

So during one of our tours, when we asked the teacher who would be leading our son through his first formal learning experience if they read to the kids, she said not so much — but the kids were welcome to look at books anytime they wanted to. Problem is, genius that I believe him to be, my son can’t actually read — so we were expecting that they would read to him.

Our search has been frustrating to say the least.

First, as any parent out there with a toddler knows, many of the daycare centers have no openings for the foreseeable future. It seems there aren’t enough day care centers in this city and no one is doing much about it. You sign up on the wait list, and then just cross your fingers that something will become available in the next year or two. This might be acceptable to a family with at least one parent who can stay home from work, but if both have to work? Good luck figuring out what to do.

In downtown L.A., there are about a dozen or so day care centers. They range from publicly subsidized centers for very low income parents in the Skid Row area all the way to upscale places that cater to the privileged children of wealthy bankers and lawyers on Bunker Hill. Prices range from free to $1,500 per month for a toddler. The older the child is, the lower the monthly cost.

In our search, we checked out a few of the in-between centers, as well as an upscale place. The differences in the quality of the facilities were expected, with the upscale places having much nicer furnishings and surroundings. What we didn’t expect was that the in-between places charging $1,000 per month had very low standards for developmental exercises. At one place, when we asked what the development strategy included, we were told that potty training was the main focus.

This would all be fine, except that several of my coworkers with small children have told me about day care centers in the suburban neighborhoods where they live that cost half the price.

How do you say “downtown needs more affordable quality daycare centers” in Latin?

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To locate a child care center in your area and get helpful information, go to HealthyCity.org or call 211.

Not sure what to look for when searching for a high-quality preschool? Check out these guidelines. Learn more about the importance of good early care and education in the latest Ready. Set. Grow! Family Guide Back-to-School Issue, available online by clicking here.

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Pacifiers: The Great Debate

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By HappyMamaX2

One day when my son Adrian was not yet 1, I took him grocery shopping. As usual, Adrian was using his pacifier to distract him from the discomfort of being strapped into the cart as we did this boring errand. While waiting to purchase our groceries, I noticed the elderly woman in front of us staring at Adrian. I caught her eye and smiled, to which she replied, “Take that thing out of his mouth. He’s never going to start speaking if you plug him up all the time.”

I was startled. How do you respond to someone criticizing your parenting choices? As a new mom, I constantly worried that I was ruining my child. And pacifiers were a particularly sensitive topic for me.

Boy with pacifier.

When I was still pregnant with Adrian, I had heard all the terrible things about pacifiers from veteran moms. I swore I’d never use them. But on the first night home from the hospital, when Adrian wouldn’t stop crying, I caved. As he slipped quietly into sleep sucking blissfully on his new binky, I felt guilty. Was I encouraging a bad habit?

As it turns out, most experts agree that the decision is up to the parents because there are both advantages and disadvantages to pacifier use. The Mayo Clinic’s website lists some of the drawbacks of using a binky: it may interfere with breastfeeding, your baby may not learn to soothe himself and it may increase the risk of ear infections or dental problems. However, the same website also lists the benefits of pacifier use: it may protect against SIDS, it provides a source of comfort or distraction for a fussy baby, it satisfies a baby’s strong suck reflex and it eases discomfort on airplanes. In addition, WebMD suggests it is easier to wean a child off a pacifier than his thumb.

On Parents.com, Marguerite Lamb’s article discusses a few expert-backed options for when and how to wean children off pacifiers. My husband and I decided to wait until Adrian was 2so that he could understand what was happening and communicate his feelings. We chose to follow Lamb’s “Three Day Plan” because it best fit our parenting style. For a few days, we talked to Adrian about giving up his binky. Then, Adrian helped us find all the pacifiers and placed them in a special box. My husband had Adrian say “thank you” and “goodbye” to his beloved friends, and then I quietly disposed of the box while Adrian was distracted. Adrian was tremendously proud of himself and told everyone that he was a “big boy now.” He struggled with sleep for a few nights, but overall it was a smooth process.

The lady in the grocery store had a very valid opinion: there are drawbacks to using pacifiers. But experts also argue that there are tremendous benefits, and that it is a personal decision all parents must make. Adrian’s binky brought him comfort when he needed it, and that is what was important to me in the end.

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Get Out & Play at the Park Safely!

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By Ready. Set. Grow!

When you live in the city, there is really no better place to Get Out & Play with kids than the park. Not only is there open space to run, ride bikes and play ball or tag, but there are the structures for kids to climb, slide, swing and balance.

However, there are some hidden (and some very obvious) dangers that every adult should be aware of when at the park with a young child. A study by the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission found that, in one year, more than 200,000 playground equipment-related injuries were treated in emergency rooms. Nearly 76 percent of those injuries were from equipment designed for public use.

Keep these in mind while you Get Out & Play.

SLIDES

There is a common leg fracture that young children get when riding down a slide with an adult. The Wall Street Journal recently reported about a New York hospital’s study that found nearly 14 percent of children’s leg fractures in an 11-month period involved toddlers riding down the slide with a parent.

Here, an orthopaedic surgeon from Maryland discusses in a short video exactly how these fractures happen:

Sliding Board Fracture Prevention

PLAY SURFACE

Under the play equipment should be a soft landing surface that extends out from the equipment in every direction. Look for wood or rubber chips, rubber mats or sand under the structures. Avoid structures with rocks, gravel or pavement underneath. Where a child lands after a fall can mean the difference between serious and minor injuries, as 79 percent of the injuries on public equipment recorded by the Commission involved falls to the ground below the equipment.

AGE-APPROPRIATE STRUCTURES

Just as kids older than 5 should not be playing in areas for toddlers and preschoolers, it is not appropriate for young children to be on structures meant for the older kids. Look for parks that have separate play areas for children younger than 5. The Commission also recommends that young children avoid free-standing arch climbs, free-standing flexible climbers, chain and cable walks, seesaws, log rolls and vertical sliding poles.

The National Playground Safety Institute has compiled a list of common playground hazards, which it calls The Dirty Dozen, in a short, downloadable pamphlet you can get here.

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Ready. Set. Grow! and First 5 LA want to help parents and caregivers get kids moving this summer. Besides lots of exercise-related blogs here, be sure to check out the Get Out & Play hub for age-appropriate physical activities for young children — especially kicking, catching, throwing and swimming. Be eligible to win prizes by taking the Get Out & Play Challengeand find free or low-cost activities to get kids outside and moving this summer.

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Kindergartner Handcuffed and Taken Away By Police for Acting Out

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By Double Duty Mama

As I read this article about a kindergartner being hauled off in handcuffs by the police for acting out in school, I tried to picture all of this happening through the eyes of a kindergartner. Or, actually, through the eyes of my kindergartner. He may be a kindergartner who struggles with behavior issues and has his share of tantrums that land him in the principal’s office … but at least the only terror he has from those experiences is the one that comes when the school calls me or my husband. The idea of the police being called because he threw a toy or had one of his defiant “I-don’t-have-to-listen-to-you” episodes with a teacher would make me seriously question the professionals in whose care I’ve trusted him. That the police and school district in this case are even now, with the benefit of hindsight, justifying their actions has me baffled.

The story cites other instances around the country where students were arrested for misbehaving at school. While their alleged “crimes” may sound trivial (burping in class), we know that those kids are older and no mention is made of their behavioral histories. How much behavioral history can a 6-year-old have that would warrant handcuffs and a trip to the clink?

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Eat Healthy, Grow Strong: Packing Kids’ Lunches

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By justJENN

When it comes to school lunches, I like to make sure the kids get a well-rounded meal. Packing the same sandwich day in and day out can be dull — even for an adult. That doesn’t mean you have to go overboard and make crazy bento boxes … but a little fun here and there, coupled with nutritious things, can give life to a mundane lunch!

Leftovers make good lunches. I pack deconstructed versions of tacos so that the kids can assemble them, or just eat the parts separately. Chicken and rice with a side of fruit is easy to pack the night before, and I always add cold packs to the lunchboxes to make sure the meals stay fresh until it’s time to eat. (Learn more about packing a bacteria-free lunch here.)

Speaking of keeping things cold — I freeze juice boxes, yogurt and grapes, which not only defrost in time for lunch, but also act as an additional cooler to the lunchboxes.

Fresh fruit: whole or sliced, as well as carrots and celery, make quick snacks to grab and go when the kids would rather play at recess.

I also like to pack are snack bars. While I like to make my own, even purchased ones make great vehicles for adding ‘reminder notes’ to the kids!

Getting your kids to eat healthy can be easy when you add a little fun and change up the meals throughout the week!

If you like justJENN’s kid-friendly recipes here, or you like creative cooking, design or geeky things (both kid-related and not) in general, be sure to check out her website http://justjennrecipes.com.

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Through April, our Eat Healthy, Grow Strong campaign will feature blog entries about nutritious eating, along with recipes, tips and resources for you to help your family Eat Healthy, Grow Strong! Be sure to visit www.ReadySetGrowLA.org/EatHealthy for even more ways to make good eating a part of your life, including upcoming events and a Nutrition Quiz to win great prizes.
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Controversy in the Bedroom: To Sleep With Your Baby or Not?

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By Downtown Dad

My back hurts, I’m always tired and, some nights, I sleep in a crevice between my bed and the nightstand. All this so I can snuggle up to my son, who’s getting so big now that whenever he sleeps with us, both my wife and I are relegated to the far edges of our full-size mattress.

We’ve heard a lot of suggestions. “Why don’t you get a bigger bed?” people ask unbelievingly, as if our suffering stems from our lack of awareness of the California King.

Oh, we know of this “California King.” Unfortunately, our downtown loft bedroom is roughly the size of a cabin on a cruise ship below the water line. And there’s no Captain Stubing giving us an upgrade.

We also get a lot of “why is your kid sleeping with you?” The answer to that is a little more complicated.

When we brought Louie home from the neo-natal intensive care unit, he slept next to our bed in a co-sleeper. We didn’t actually lower the side and co-sleep with him because we’d purchased the wrong-sized sleeper and our bed was too low.

Eventually, we moved the boy into his very own cabin across the loft. And that’s where he sleeps most the time. Except when he wakes up at 3 a.m. and won’t go back to sleep no matter how many times you lay him down.

As I’ve mentioned, we are older parents who get winded easily. After sitting up with Louie for a bit, we poop out and bring him into our room, where we fully intend to put him back in his crib after he’s fallen asleep between us.

And that’s where you’ll find us five minutes later. Fast asleep.

There’s a lot of information floating around out there about co-sleeping. Should we? Shouldn’t we? The fear is a real one in the case of tiny infants whose parent may roll over on them unawares during the night. Suffocation is also a concern if a baby gets intertwined in bedding or squirms himself between the mattress and headboard or wall.

In October, the American Academy of Pediatrics released new recommendations to ensure safe sleep for babies 1-year-old and younger, including avoiding “bed-sharing,” in which an infant sleeps in the same bed as a parent or another child.

My wife and I both agreed with that recommendation.

But now that Louie is 18 months, we made the choice to let him sleep with us on occasion. And if we so much as breathe too much in his direction, he gives a nice sharp kick or a not-so-nice push to let us know we are intruding on his space. That’s how I end up in the aforementioned crevice.

My wife says we should enjoy as much snuggling and closeness as we can, because when Louie is a teenager, the last thing he’ll do is cuddle up to his love-starved parents.

So I sleep in the crevice with a smile on my face, my sweet son snoring gently beside me.

Recommendations for further reading:

New Rules to Fight Crib Death: Breastfeeding and Vaccinations (My Health News Daily)

Babies sleep problems persist into toddler years (Reuters)

New Program to Target Unsafe Sleeping and Shaken Baby Syndrome (First 5 LA’s Monday Morning Report)

Safe Sleep Tips for Your Baby

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Be Sure Your Kids Aren’t Getting “Tricked” This Halloween with Dangerous Candy**

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By Ready. Set. Grow!

**Updated Oct. 27, 2011

As if Halloween isn’t scary enough, but now we also must worry about lead in the candy and candy wrappings our little ghouls and goblins get trick-or-treating. Most candy is safe for children and parents, but some contain hidden lead.

According to Dr. Jonathan Fielding, director of the Los Angeles County Department of Public Health and a First 5 LA commissioner, lead can seriously affect a child’s brain and nervous system and may cause learning and behavioral problems. Last year in the county, 672 children suffered from lead poisoning. “Lead poisoning is both tragic and entirely preventable,” he added.

The Department has issued a list of candies, most of which come from Mexico, from all over the world that tested positive for an unsafe amount of lead. A list of candies that were found to contain unacceptable levels of lead is on the Department’s website in English and Spanish.

Since this week (Oct. 23 -29) is National Childhood Lead Poisoning Prevention Week, this is also a good time to remember that there is a lot we can do to reduce a child’s exposure to leads. Here are some sources of lead exposure:

 ·        Deteriorated paint and dust from houses and apartments built before 1978 where lead paint was used.

  • Ground soil that has been contaminated by lead paint, lead dust, or leaded gasoline.
  • Lead dust that comes into the home on work clothes or work boots.
  • Some folk or traditional remedies, such as Azarcón and Greta.
  • Various imported goods, which can include specific items of toys, ceramics, and children’s jewelry.
  • Hobbies using items that contain lead, such as soldering, making stained glass, and handling bullets or fishing sinkers.

All parents and caregivers of young children are invited to learn how to protect their children from this silent and serious environmental threat. Free materials in many languages, as well as answers to questions on lead poisoning prevention, are available by calling 1-800-LA-4-LEAD or online at http://publichealth.lacounty.gov/lead.

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After Tragedies Involving Children, Don’t Be So Quick to Blame

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By Double Duty Mama

In the past week, a few tragic stories involving kids in our community have landed on my radar screen. They all involved freak, unfortunate accidents — the kind that can happen to anyone of us at any time, without warning.

In my former profession, I was a newspaper reporter who covered stories in court. These were the worst of the worst and often involved children. It’s never easy hearing about violent and awful things that humans do to each other, but when kids are involved? It is impossible to sit there and not feel for the child or his or her family. When I became a parent, I struggled during the day and cried into my pillow at night.

The thing I often noticed, though, when covering these cases — and I’ve seen it this week, too — is how quickly outsiders are to blame the child’s parents. An innocent 14-year-old is shot in broad daylight in her front yard in a gang-related shooting? “Why did her parents let her hang around outside?” newspaper readers say in the comments, A 7-year-old riding a bicycle gets hit by a delivery truck in a market parking lot? “Where was his mom?” people demand. A 5-year-old chokes at daycare? “Why didn’t his parents teach him better?” they wonder as they gather around the water cooler.

I’ve often said that the biggest challenge and main responsibility of parenthood is keeping these kids alive and uninjured. With two rambunctious little boys, I feel that any day that passes without a trip to the emergency room is a successful day. Because, no matter how many times you tell them to look both ways before crossing the street or don’t put anything in their mouths, they will still forget. They are young, they are reckless, they are naïve and they lack common sense. They are just kids.

And as much as we wish we could be with them every second of every day to protect them from any and all harm, that’s just not possible. We can’t both raise them in a bubble and teach them independence and self-sufficiency.

Accidents can happen to any of us. Instead of second-guessing grieving parents or making them feel worse, we should instead be understanding, sympathetic and offer whatever support we can. When these tragedies occur, the only thing we can do is try to learn from them: talk to your kids again (and again) and, as often as you can, hold them close and tell them you love them.

 

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What’s in Your Baby’s Bag this Summer?

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By Mama Love

You might be thinking: “What more could I possibly add to my already bulging diaper bag?” With summer in full swing, the weather elements are out in full force: sun, wind and a few showers, too. Most likely, you’re busy with many spontaneous (or planned) family outings around town or trips to the beach or mountains.

Even if you don’t have plans, it’s a good idea to keep some staple summer items in your baby’s. Better yet, you might even prepare a special summer bag to keep in your car.

In addition to the basic necessities in your diaper bag now, like diapers, wipes, fever reducer, Band-Aids, nail clippers, extra clothes and snacks, there are a few things you should include specifically for summer excursions. Plus, it’s always a good idea to refresh your diaper bag and restock it.

Summer must-haves for baby’s bag:

• Oil-free sun block spray or lotion, SPF 15 or higher

• Sunglasses with a wrap

• Sandals or thongs

• Beach towel

• Reusable water bottle or environmentally-friendly baby

• Insulated lunch bag

• Aloe vera gel and hydrocortisone cream

• Spray bottle (good for getting sand off baby’s feet or hands)

• Waterproof hat with Velcro straps

• Washcloth

• Recyclable, reusable bags

• Windproof, waterproof baby jacket

• Plastic wear (cup, fork, spoon)

• Additional bathing suit

Items to consider leaving in your car for the duration of summer:

• Jug of water

• Portable beach tent

• Beach umbrella

• Picnic or beach blanket

• Beach toy set such as a plastic bucket, shovels and rakes or balls

• Kite

• Tissue or roll of toilet paper (just in case the beach bathrooms are out!)

Finding a Great Bag

We have a special orange bag for summer and my kids jump and shout with excitement when they see me pull it out. They know it means we’re on our way to having some fun. If you don’t already have a kid-friendly beach bag (in addition to your regular diaper bag), there are some festive ones in stores now that are fully equipped with loads of space, zippered compartments, key holders, water bottle storage and more. Even a sturdy, recyclable bag will do, and you can usually find them for a few dollars or less.

For any outing, short or long, of course you’ll always want to make sure your cameras and video cameras are fully charged to capture those keepsake moments. I can say from experience that traveling with kids in the summer presents something new each day, and it’s a good idea to be prepared for those spontaneous outings. Safe and happy traveling!

 

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Traveling with Baby

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By Downtown Dad

The first time I ever got on an airplane, I was 10. My family was taking a month-long vacation to Colombia, where all of my father’s relatives live. It was 1980, and things were different back then. Smoking was allowed on flights, (everyone smoked in those days) and child safety issues were, generally, more of an afterthought.

More recently, when our son Louis turned 9 months old, we took him on his first flight to visit my wife’s relatives in New Orleans. At first, we were nervous about flying with him so small. But we did some research, followed some good advice and safety guidelines, and it worked out pretty well.

First was getting on the plane. We had flown when my wife was pregnant, and the airline gave us pre-boarding passes on request. But on our recent trip with Louis, we found that with a baby, some airlines do and some don’t. Southwest, which we were flying, allowed us to board between the A and B groups.

Next was trying to make Louis comfy on board. Some friends told us that the pressure of taking off and landing often causes babies to cry on flights because they can’t relieve the pressure like we can by intentionally yawning or swallowing. Maybe that’s why my baby sister cried so much on that flight to Colombia. It was eight hours of fun. Our fellow passengers weren’t happy about it, and my parents were frustrated by the experience. All the smoke in the cabin didn’t help, either.

Now I’ve flown many times, and I know how crying babies on board can drive people crazy. But as a parent, I can say that it’s even worse if you can’t figure out how to soothe your child. Things can get stressful and tense when people are telling you to keep your baby quiet.

We solved this problem by choosing a flight that was close to Louis’s regular feeding time, bringing a bottle of formula on board, and giving it to him just as we took off. It worked like a charm because not only was Louis totally calm during take off, but he fell asleep right afterward — and slept most of the four-hour flight. We gave him another small bottle just as we were landing, and it seemed to do the trick again.

The next big decision was whether to hold him on our lap (children under 2 years old fly for free this way) or strap him to an airplane seat in his car seat (airlines charge a reduced rate for children if you choose to do this). If we held him, we thought it might get a little crowded in our row. If not, he would by law have to be strapped into an approved child restraint system, normally a car seat with an approved design for air travel.

The deciding factor was that Louis is a full-time snuggler. So we decided to hold him, and he’s still small enough to make it easy. If he were closer to two, the seat option might have been better.

Finally, after all the preparations and the effort of getting baby and luggage to the airport on time, we waited with anticipation to find out if our fellow passengers would be pro baby or not. We lucked out, and the woman sitting next to us turned out to be a mom who works with kids for a living. Louis charmed her from the start with his flirty smile, and we breathed a sigh of relief.

It was a world away from that loud, smoky flight back in 1980.

To get more information on important things to know when traveling with children, check out these web sites:

www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/children/index.shtm

www.flyingwithkids.com

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